How to Tell a Narcissist You Want a Divorce

What to Do BEFORE Telling Them A narcissist won’t take a deciding to divorce as a mutual decision—they’ll see it as a personal attack. Expect denial, anger, manipulation, or even sudden love-bombing to try to regain control. They won’t process the situation like a reasonable person, which means you ...
Putative Marriages: The Definition and Your Rights

Marriage is usually a straightforward legal arrangement—two people say “I do,” sign the paperwork, and move forward as a legally recognized couple. But what happens when that legal foundation isn’t as solid as it seems? This is where the concept of a putative marriage comes in. A putative marriage ...
What is Microcheating?

Microcheating refers to behaviors that, while not constituting a full-blown affair, push the boundaries of trust in a relationship. These actions often appear innocent on the surface—such as secretly texting an old flame or constantly interacting with a specific person on social media—but they can s ...
Legal Separation vs Divorce in Colorado

What Sets Legal Separation Apart from Divorce? Legal separation and divorce both involve legal proceedings to address property, finances, and family dynamics, but they lead to distinct outcomes. Legal separation allows a couple to live apart while remaining legally married. This option appeals to t ...
Custody Rights for Unmarried Parents

In Colorado, custody rights for unmarried parents are distinct, particularly regarding fathers. By default, an unmarried mother has full parental rights unless the father legally establishes his relationship to the child. Once paternity is confirmed—often through a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Patern ...
How Long Does a Military Divorce Take?

Military divorces are more complex than civilian divorces, primarily due to the unique challenges military life presents. Active-duty status, deployments, and military benefits all affect how long the process takes. Federal laws, like the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA), add another layer of ...